If you’re anything like me, your marriage to a narcissist was confusing, maddening, disappointing, frightening, and depressing. I can remember thinking, “What in the world was going on?” I had absolutely no idea how to deal with a narcissist, much less understand what one is.

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I didn’t put two and two together for a long time; only after much research and validation did I begin to understand the depths of human behavior a personality disorder will affect.

If you’re here, you’re probably in the same boat: lost, confused, beaten down, fearful, exhausted. Believe me, I know that it’s almost impossible to envision a pathway forward when you are so emotionally spent! Seriously, it was all I could do to put one foot in front of the other. If only there had been a step-by-step guide to follow for me then!

I learned how to deal with a narcissist and wrote a book about it!

This is the reason I wrote “The Narcissist You Divorce: 7 Action Steps to Divorcing a Narcissist and Rebuilding Your Life.” I told myself, if I could help just one person navigate a healthy escape from the emotional prison that a relationship with a narcissist is, then my years of suffering would not have been in vain. There IS light at the end of the tunnel, even if you feel like you’re just wandering around in the dark.

Buy the book The Narcissist You Divorce here!

This site is about how to deal with a narcissist: the one you married, the one you’re dating, the one you divorced, the one you have to co-parent with, or maybe the parent you didn’t choose. The fact is: narcissism is prevalent in our society, and you’ve more than likely encountered narcissists in more than one place in your life.

Start with these posts:

Decoding the 9 Traits of a Narcissist: A Helpful Guide

Signs of Covert Narcissism: What Traits to Look For

Narcissist Gaslighting Examples: A Balanced Look